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42169: Youth Worker"s Guide to Parent Ministry  

Youth Workers Guide to Parent Ministry
by: Marv Penner

 

Sunday School Lessons

Teaching Sunday School
Still a great method to disciple teens.

So you're feeling urged to teach Sunday School? Been tapped on the shoulder by the Holy Spirit to get involved? Terrified that if you sit down with a bunch of Middle Schoolers your brain will go blank? Then this web site is just for you!

For years churches have been ignoring the junior high age kids, dumping them in with the high school group or letting them languish in the elementary age classes. "There's only a few," the elders rationalize, "As long as they're quiet." You, however, have become appalled at this treatment and must help. While Junior High ministry can be time and resource consuming that can not be used as an excuse for sidestepping the discipleship of our youth. Survey data now shows that 90% of kids make a decision to leave the church when they are in middle school.

Sunday School done properly is a time-tested, effective method of discipleship but it must be a family oriented ministry. However, due to a lack of volunteers many churches are discontinuing their programs completely. I feel that the rational that students become dependent upon the program or the adult mentor for spiritual growth is a copout. One bad result, however, is that parents have abdicated their responsibility of discipling their kids to the youth leaders.

It does require a strong commitment on the part of the teacher. Parents, teachers, and churches must accept the responsibility for our kids as the family of Christ. As a Sunday School teacher you will have a pivotal mentoring role in the lives of your students long after they graduate. This website is full of helpful ideas and youth ministry resources.

57551: Help! I"m A Volunteer Youth Worker Help! I'm A Volunteer Youth Worker
By Doug Fields / Zondervan Youth Specialties

Help! I'm a Volunteer Youth Worker! gives you the basics for successfully reaching teenagers whether you're an old hand at youth work or you've just signed on. These fifty, bite-sized suggestions are easy to remember and put into practice. They include tips on: How to build relationships with students, How to recruit and train other volunteers, How to get along with the pastor and youth director, How to model Christian love to your students, and more! If you're a professional youth worker looking for new ways to encourage and empower your volunteer youth workers, just hand them a copy of Help! I'm a Volunteer Youth Worker! And don't forget to consult the book yourself--because you're guaranteed to find great ideas for youth work that maybe even you hadn't thought of.
Remember when you were a kid? Your Sunday School teacher dressed you in your Dad's white shirt, attached a giant red plastic bow and shoved you on stage in front of the whole church? You were mortified. Then why are these kids, now parents themselves, subjecting they're kids to the abuse? Soak up the advice contained on this website to make your Sunday School class fun, relevant, and successful. The book, Controlled Chaos: Making Sense of Junior High Ministry , shown below is a good read. Except for the part about discontinuing Sunday School class I could have written it myself.
Middle School Ministry - Physical

Middle School Ministry

Many people run scared from the middle school youth room. But (thankfully!) there are people out there who are actually drawn to those young teens. Although often times they're not equipped to deal with the unique challenges that middle school ministry presents, or they're just not sure what to do when a room full of young teens (who are "part child, but not quite adult") are running around the youth room. Finally, there's a comprehensive guide to middle school ministry, from two veterans of this unchartered territory. Mark Oestreicher and Scott Rubin help youth workers understand the importance of middle school ministry, the development process for young teens and their implications for ministry, and how to best minister to these sometimes misunderstood students. They share their experiences (as middle school pastors and parents of middle schoolers), giving youth workers he encouragement, hope, and training they need to succeed in middle school ministry.



Kevin and Picard1Corinthians 9:19-22 "Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some." (NIV)

Could we say "To a kid, become like kid, to win the kids?" You don't have to be cool but you must be authentic. Actually you can be yourself but meet the kids on their level. Don't insist that they meet you on yours.

Don't be afraid to be silly or outrageous: Play with them.


This is a great book and a fun read.

274957: 101 Ideas for Making Disciples in Your Youth Group  

Ridgity in your rules: If you insist the kids act and dress in your preconceived ways you are doomed. Making them dress in button down shirts with ties, girls in dresses, making them call you Mr., Sir, or Mrs. will just turn them off. You must let the kids be kids.

My three rules:
1. No fighting.
2. No farting.
3. No screaming.
4. No spit wads.

We had to add that last one after a long car trip back from Acquire the Fire. Other than that I keep it pretty loose. Note: I don't have a dress code but I do have a stink code.

Make your class or meeting less like school. Let the kids be kids by giving them the chance to do everything they aren't allowed to do at school, like chew gum, text their friends, throw paper airplanes (no spit wads), and talk without raising their hands. This creates a relaxed atmosphere.

252474: Creative Teaching That Changes Lives: How to Teach Teens for Holistic Impact Creative Teaching That Changes Lives: How to Teach Teens for Holistic Impact
By Dan Lambert / Zondervan Youth Specialties

This book will help teachers in a variety of Christian youth ministry settings more effectively to plan and to teach so that their efforts will genuinely impact the lives of the teens they serve. This long-needed book will be used by professional youth workers to enhance their own practice; will equip volunteers; and will become a foundational text in college and seminary classrooms. This book is a comprehensive, research-informed text whose passion is fueled by the urgent need in youth ministry to better reach students, to inform them about God's will for their lives, and to have students experience change in their lives they can experience beyond the youth-group setting. No other text in print so fully helps youth workers teach teens holistically. This book combines adolescent development theory, educational theory, and practical applications and ideas. With this book's comprehensive outlook, teachers and youth leaders can have greater opportunities for a richer impact on students for the sake of the Gospel.

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48693: This Way to Youth Ministry: An Introduction to the Adventure  
 

This Way To Youth Ministry: An Introduction To The Adventure.
by: Duffy Robins
volunteerMy bodyguard: So I didn't have to be distracted from the teaching aspect of youth group I was blessed to have a parent volunteer like this six foot plus, contractor. He kept a lid on things while I taught. For the most part he'd just sit himself between the "unruly young'uns". You either made room or got sat on. It worked well. Even though his son graduated out of the youth group this dad developed into a loving extended parent for the youth. Jump to my blog for more information on parents and adults in youth ministry.

Sunday School: You want your class to be as little like a school classroom as you can. More like hanging out. See my page on Youth Facilities. In addition: No need to raise hands to speak, get a snack if you want. See my page on using rewards with more about teaching style.

When the class grew over twenty kids I actually used a PA system to amplify my voice so I didn't have to shout over the kids. We'd pass the mic around for them to read Bible verses. That just made it even more fun.

486197: The New Breed, Second Edition The New Breed, Second Edition
By Jonathan McKee & Thomas W. McKee / Group Publishing

The world of volunteers has changed. But have you changed also?

Across the country, volunteer ranks continue to grow, but people are volunteering differently. They're working online, seeking flexible schedules, and pursuing a role in defining how projects should be completed. They want to feel a sense of responsibility for your organization's overall mission.

Put simply, these volunteers don't simply want to make a contribution; they want to make a difference!

Jonathan and Thomas McKee have tapped into their decades of experience with the simple goal of helping you recruit, anage, and lead a new breed of volunteers. They'll guide you to a clearer understanding of what today's volunteers look like, how they want to get involved, and how you can most effectively attract, train, and unleash them within your organization.

You'll also discover a bounty of helpful resources to assist you, including job descriptions, applications, and interview questions; activities, icebreakers, and team-builders for volunteer meetings; community building activities; and tips for board retreats and planning sessions.

The 21st century calls for a new system and for a greatly expanded definition of what it means to be a volunteer. If you can harness this passion and potential, you'll experience results that will reward both your organization and your volunteers.
 

Discipline in class: See my article "Respect the kids"

Never yell at the kids. Yelling may be the easiest way to express your displeasure with a students behavior and it may at times be effective, but, the net result is that all the kids who witness this will lose respect for you and you'll have a harder time getting their cooperation later.

The Love and Logic books have great tips for teachers as well as parents.

Jesus said: “If you love me, you will obey what I command." (John 14:15) He wasn't saying, "If you want to prove you love me, do what I say." He was saying, Because you love me you'll want to do what I teach." Apply this to your teaching methods. If your kids love you, they will cooperate. Get your kids to love you then you'll have very few problems. See also "Piercing Preteen Armor"

 
732292: Partnering with Parents in Youth Ministry Partnering with Parents in Youth Ministry
By Jim Burns & Mike DeVries

The most powerful force in a young person's life is his family. That's why youth experts Jim Burns and Mike DeVries have written this book, which provides youth workers with everything they need to partner with parents to help them disciple their own children. This fresh approach to youth ministry has biblical roots in Deuteronomy 6:4-9, where believers are mandated to pass their family's faith legacy to the next generations. This book helps youth workers understand their unique role in helping families succeed. It provides an overview of family-based youth ministry which focuses on equipping, encouraging and networking youth workers and parents so they can nurture the spiritual growth of their children. It's also packed with practical ideas--devotion, discussion starters, small-group parenting curriculum, family retreats, parent retreats, games, forums and more--to help youth workers implement this awesome ministry in their church. This is a breakthrough book that will guide youth workers as they reach parents and their children with the message of Christ's love and grace!
 

Encourage Parents to get in the game.

I've actually seen parents knees go weak as they've walked towards the Youth Building. They hear the commotion, they're legs get wobbly, they turn and stagger away in fear. It doesn't have to be that way. For more great advice on this issue click here. Tell the parents these two things: Approach the kids in a friendly manner and they will reciprocate. The rewards are huge. You'll make an everlasting difference in their lives.

Here's the only advice you'll need to be a hit with kids:

1. Take them seriously: Listen to what they say; do not dismiss their feelings or thoughts.
2. Respect them: Give them the same respect you'd give a grownup.


Family-Based Youth Ministry:

After seeing appalling abuses of the term ”family-based” youth ministry I need to weigh in on the subject. Some churches have actually scrapped their youth ministry and Sunday Schools in preference of their misinterpretation of the concept of a “family-based” youth ministry. In reality this is actually a reaction to the lack of committed volunteers and/ or their lack of commitment to fund a Youth Pastor staff position. These churches now feel justified in shirking their responsibility to train the youth in Christian principles arguing that these separate classes and groups take the youth out of the life of the church body. In his book, “Family-Based Youth Ministry”, Mark DeVries does make the assertion that the current youth group model we have been following, if that is all a church is doing for it’s youth, fails the youth by not connecting them with adults within the body of the church. I think these church leaders only read chapter three, found the rational to be lazy, then stopped reading. At the end of (read more)

832432: Family-Based Youth Ministry Revised and Expanded Family-Based Youth Ministry Revised and Expanded
By Mark DeVries / Inter-varsity Press

In a culture that worships youth even as it abandons its young, this book gets adults, families and congregations involved. If you are disappointed with the results from the glitzy programs and entertaining activities you've used with your church's young people, then this is the book for you. Family-Based Youth Ministry is a multigenerational approach that takes seriously the job of discipling teens and building mature believers. This revised and updated edition continues to hold out its bold challenge: Young people belong in the life of their church, and the church belongs in the lives of its youth. Now featured is free curriculum for use with youth and young adults together.
Group Magazine

Connecting with other Sunday School volunteers:

Find answers, encouragement, and camaraderie with other Youth volunteers, pastors, and leaders at Group's forum: Group Magazine is also a good resource. I currently serve as moderator for Group's Youth Ministry Forum.

E-mail me with questions if you want. It's just me: direct answers from a regular person like you.

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Teaching Sunday school is still a great method to disciple teens but it must be part of a greater family based youth ministry.

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