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To date or not to date. That is the question. Sunday school lesson plan

That is indeed the question. The hottest topic on the minds of Junior High age kids as the hormones ramp up to a fever pitch. What we teach is of grave concern to parents as well. Lots of great stuff has been written on this subject by very learned people. I have been a part of teaching Joshua Harris' book "I kissed Dating Goodbye" (shown below) as a six week series with the boys and girls separated. It was good to team-teach with a younger youth leader. He could empathize with the young men because he was still in the midst of the battle himself. I added a perspective from the long end of the battle that he could not.

While Joshua's approach is not to date at all, my Sunday School lesson aims to get kids thinking about their responsibility in a loving relationship, not just what a relationship can do for them.

Kids do not want to be told not to date. They're going to date. What they want is a biblical approach to relationships. My lesson does that.

My teenage son received lots of help and good advice from the books shown below.

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521676: Boy Meets Girl Boy Meets Girl
By Joshua Harris / Multnomah

If you're fed up with self-centered relationships that end in disillusionment, it's time to rethink romance. Finding the loving, committed relationships you want shouldn't mean throwing away your hopes, your integrity, or your heart. Joshua Harris makes the case, for courtship. As old-fashioned as it might sound, courtship is what modern day relationships desperately need. Think of it as romance chaperoned by wisdom, cared for by community, and directed by God's word. Filled with inspiring stories of men and women who have rediscovered courtship.
 
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525191: Sex Is Not the Problem, Lust Is Sex Is Not the Problem, Lust Is
By Joshua Harris / Multnomah

An equal opportunity destroyer, lust targets males and females alike. Discover the enemy's secret strategies-and fight back to win lasting freedom. Straightforward without being graphic, Harris's handbook offers practical advice for combating unholy urges, resisting temptation, and embracing godly desire.
 

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521358: I Kissed Dating Goodbye, A New Attitude Toward Romance and  Relationships I Kissed Dating Goodbye, A New Attitude Toward Romance and Relationships
By Joshua Harris / Multnomah

Are you fed up with the sham and charade of the dating game? Harris understands because he's been there. His honest and refreshing approach to dating challenges today's dating practices and offers practical, biblical alternatives. Discover how living a life of love, purity, and purposeful singleness can help you build godly, satisfying relationships.
 

Every Teenager's Little Black Book on Sex and Dating: Physical
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Every Teenager's
Little Black Book on
Sex and Dating

Teens and adults alike love the short, simple lists and bullet points filled with humor and hard-hitting truths.

 

Sex. Dating.

Sex. Dating.

The Bible doesn’t tell us how to ask someone out and Scripture doesn’t say what the perfect date would look like. But God gives clear guidance on how we should treat our bodies and how we should treat others … including the opposite sex.In these four sessions, Hayley and Michael DiMarco use practical and Biblical guidelines to help teens figure out how to build healthy relationships with the opposite sex. Real-life interviews with teenagers from across the country. Understand the purpose of dating and how to respect ourselves and each other. Four sessions with insightful topics: Boundaries The Role of Dating Tough Issues for Guys Tough Issues for Girls Michael & Hayley DiMarco work side-by-side at Hungry Planet, a company committed to publishing spiritually-based content for teens and young adults. They have authored and co-authored numerous bestselling books including Dateable and Marriable: Taking the Desperate Out of Dating. They live in Tennessee with their daughter.


Every Young Man's Battle: Physical We used these two exceptional books, Every Young Man's Battle, and Every Young Woman's Battle, to teach a series of classes on these good sexual questions:
  • Why is my faith keeping me from the fun everybody else is having?
  • Why do I think about sex so much?
  • Why should I obey God when nobody else seems to—even grownups?
  • Is doing this OK with God?
  • What do I really believe about God?
  • How far is too far?
  • Why does God expect so much of me?

Every Young Woman's Battle: Physical
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For this series of lessons on sexual purity we separated the boys and girls. We had both a younger and older leader in each class. The younger leader identified with the youth in their current struggles. The older leader was able to give hard life examples of having fought the battle and the lifelong implications for the decisions they'd make today. It worked really well. Sunday school lessons about dating is always a hot topic.
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