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Help Christian Parents Disciple Their Kids |
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| I have come to realize that most youth leaders are young. Most of you are closer in age to the kids in your group than to their parents. No wonder you feel intimidated when the task is to teach & encourage parents to disciple their kids. But this is the task, the surveys say, that needs to be addressed as a top priority to stem the flow of youth away from the church. My best suggestion if you are unable to overcome your feelings in this area is to delegate this important task to trusted older adults in the church. It's a big job and will take the cooperation of the entire church. | |||||
Ed Stetzer, director of LifeWay Research is quoted as saying this: "There is no easy way to say it, but it must be said. Parents and churches are not passing on a robust Christian faith and an accompanying commitment to the church. We can take some solace in the fact that many do eventually return. But, Christian parents and churches need to ask the hard question, ‘What is it about our faith commitment that does not find root in the lives of our children?’" |
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Parents attending churches that have youth programs seem to have completely abdicated the responsibility of discipleship of their kids to the youth leader or the Sunday school teacher. In fact the data seems to show that Sunday School and youth group is having a detrimental effect on kids spiritual growth. More is caught than taught. While a youth pastor or Sunday School teacher can have a pivotal relationship with a teen, the parent/child relationship is by far the most influential relationship in every kid's life. Kids learn to be Christian adults by watching their parents react to life in a Christ-like manner. |
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Eating dinner together is known to be one of the best things a family can to together. My dad would read a chapter from the Bible after dinner every night then close in prayer. While some of the Old Testament stories can be quite gruesome I learned the Bible by reading it through many times during my child hood. This has served my faith well. Try this book by Nancy Gutherie for family-friendly devotions after dinner. |
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An alarming trend of summarily dismissing parent teacher/volunteers when a youth pastor is hired is only exacerbating the isolation of teenagers from their primary imitative relationships. Parents should be encouraged to join in every aspect of youth ministry. The ministry of the entire church should be aimed at reinforcing the family. |
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In one of my groups most of the kids were in a single parent situation. Teaching parenting skills to the remaining parent was helpful but an additional strategy needed to be employed. We needed to equip the congregation to be extended families. Teaching church members to consider themselves older brothers and sisters in Christ to the teens is what Jesus recommended in Mark 3:31-35. If kids receive nurture and support from their church family they will be more likely to return to church for these same reasons as an adult. |
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Character Building For Families |
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10 Minute Moments: The Red Stuff Suggest this resource to parents as a devotional for their kids.The Red Stuff is a 31-day devotional and journal that gets kids into the words of Jesus - aka "The Red Stuff" - and keeps their spiritual journey on the path. Click on the book to order from Simply Youth Ministry. |
You're A Youth Minister (full page) Use this article as a church handout to increase your church's awareness of the need to include young people in their lives. Many news reports of coaches, day-care workers, even youth pastors accused of child abuse and sexual ms-conduct have caused parents to be very guarded with the relationships their kids have with other adults. The isolation of nuclear families alienates children from the strength of extended families. Mature christians need to be aware of the incredible blessings that come from being a surrogate grandparent, uncle, aunt, older brother or sister, to the youth in their church. |
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Doug Fields, in his book, Your First Two Years In Youth Ministry says, " You're an influence, not the influence." Here are resources to help parents disciple their teens. Christian parents are your allies in youth ministry, not your enemies.
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